fact or fiction - church is for men

what gets men to church? I know, your first answer is probably "their wife" and that may be all too true. But let's look a little deeper and ask what is it that the church has to offer that men need and are ready to embrace? Does the male heart long for connection, recognition, oppotunity, influence - what attracts a man to be more than a spectator and participate in the life of a church? What makes a church "manly" or strong? What compels you to be involved in your church and engaged in a daily spiritual life?